Molly came to me quite unexpectedly, she is an almost all black german shepherd female. She was the product of a divorce, the husband just to be nasty wouldn't let the xwife have her so he kept her. Kept her locked in a crate for 18 months.
As to how I came to get her, my daughter was dating the roomate of this x husband, he told my daughter about the dog, how the x would go away for weekends at a time leaving the dog with no food or water and the condition she was in. My daughter's boyfriend Xboyfriend) did get food for her and a bed for her crate but he didn't do enough. He should have called the authorities and had the dog removed. But anyway he told my daughter about her plight and she told me about it. I had to step in and help that dog.
My daughter spoke with the man, actually kind of threatened him to give the dog up or else. He didn't want trouble and didn't want the dog so he gave her to my daughter. My daughter had no place to bring her except home to me. One look at that big lack face and the terrible condition she was in and it was a done deal. Molly now lives with me. She had been so neglected she knew nothing, not even what toys were.
First thing I did was take her to my vet where she got a good medical evaluation. Other than having no muscle mass from being caged and no excercise she was pretty healthy. One ear doesn't stand straight because at one time she must have been hit in the head and the ear damaged, her back legs are a little bent from being crated while she was growing. Nothing I can do about her physical deformities but today she is a different dog.
First thing I did was put her on good dog food, then daily took her to the ball field to play, to teach her what its like to be a dog. To have human companionship and be loved and not caged. I had a crate for her because she got nervous and wanted to go "hide" but I left the door open and she would tip toe out to see what I was doing. She hasn't been near the crate for months now. She knows she is loved, in fact maybe to much, on her last visit to the vet he told me she has to loose 15 pounds, she's up to 102 pounds, I don't think she's fat, just big boned.
I am probably the only one who ever gave this dog a kind word and showed her any attention and she has blossomed. She now has a nice shiny coat, loves to play but most of all loves to be with me. I call her my velcro dog. We are attached at the hip, I can't move she is right under my feet. I've worked many many hours to train her to be what I want and she is a real joy to have around. Her only flaw is she is dog aggressive. I have another shepherd and at first the adjustment was rough but we got through it, they will never be best friends but they don't fight anymore. Actually her best friend is my cat, these two are so bonded I think they think they are a couple.
But back to the black dog thing, people have to realize its a dog's personality that counts, its personality you live with day in and day out, not the color of their coat. No matter what color she would have been Molly would still have a home with me. Molly has her last home, she will be with me until the day she dies. She will be 4 years old Christmas Day, will be two years I've had her in October.
Bottom line, she needed a home and I invited her to mine, best decision I ever made. She is a beauty and a joy to have around.
So for anyone reading this please look past the color of the coat and see the dog under the hair, you might be passing up a real jewel if all you are concerned with is looks!
As to how I came to get her, my daughter was dating the roomate of this x husband, he told my daughter about the dog, how the x would go away for weekends at a time leaving the dog with no food or water and the condition she was in. My daughter's boyfriend Xboyfriend) did get food for her and a bed for her crate but he didn't do enough. He should have called the authorities and had the dog removed. But anyway he told my daughter about her plight and she told me about it. I had to step in and help that dog.
My daughter spoke with the man, actually kind of threatened him to give the dog up or else. He didn't want trouble and didn't want the dog so he gave her to my daughter. My daughter had no place to bring her except home to me. One look at that big lack face and the terrible condition she was in and it was a done deal. Molly now lives with me. She had been so neglected she knew nothing, not even what toys were.
First thing I did was take her to my vet where she got a good medical evaluation. Other than having no muscle mass from being caged and no excercise she was pretty healthy. One ear doesn't stand straight because at one time she must have been hit in the head and the ear damaged, her back legs are a little bent from being crated while she was growing. Nothing I can do about her physical deformities but today she is a different dog.
First thing I did was put her on good dog food, then daily took her to the ball field to play, to teach her what its like to be a dog. To have human companionship and be loved and not caged. I had a crate for her because she got nervous and wanted to go "hide" but I left the door open and she would tip toe out to see what I was doing. She hasn't been near the crate for months now. She knows she is loved, in fact maybe to much, on her last visit to the vet he told me she has to loose 15 pounds, she's up to 102 pounds, I don't think she's fat, just big boned.
I am probably the only one who ever gave this dog a kind word and showed her any attention and she has blossomed. She now has a nice shiny coat, loves to play but most of all loves to be with me. I call her my velcro dog. We are attached at the hip, I can't move she is right under my feet. I've worked many many hours to train her to be what I want and she is a real joy to have around. Her only flaw is she is dog aggressive. I have another shepherd and at first the adjustment was rough but we got through it, they will never be best friends but they don't fight anymore. Actually her best friend is my cat, these two are so bonded I think they think they are a couple.
But back to the black dog thing, people have to realize its a dog's personality that counts, its personality you live with day in and day out, not the color of their coat. No matter what color she would have been Molly would still have a home with me. Molly has her last home, she will be with me until the day she dies. She will be 4 years old Christmas Day, will be two years I've had her in October.
Bottom line, she needed a home and I invited her to mine, best decision I ever made. She is a beauty and a joy to have around.
So for anyone reading this please look past the color of the coat and see the dog under the hair, you might be passing up a real jewel if all you are concerned with is looks!
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Re: My Molly
Thu, April 27, 2006 - 12:15 PMWhat a sad story. You've done an amazing job with her. She's very lucky indeed. -
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Thu, April 27, 2006 - 3:28 PMI just don't understand why people don't like black dogs..
I have always picked black dogs.... or blk&brn....
good for you for rescuing Molly!!
I did just take a class & learned a trick about that pesky dog aggression thing... my LuLu is AWFUL about that... it would be funny if it wasn't so horrible... at the end of her leash likes she's gonna just kill em...
she's my little drama queen..
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Re: My Molly
Thu, April 27, 2006 - 4:29 PMCouldn't have said it better...it's the personality that counts...not the coat color! Bless you for rescuing Mollly. I got a pit that is dog aggressive, I just deal with it...She is never off leash out of the house. That is being a responsible owner... I have had dog aggressive dogs in my home at the same time. It requires planning, care and time to keep them from hurting each other, but it is all do-able...
I hope you and Molly have many happy years together...there is nothing like having a dog that is glad to see you when you come home.
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Re: My Molly
Thu, April 27, 2006 - 6:45 PMMolly will always hate other dogs but we are working on that issue, I have her so that now when she's outside with me and another dog comes wandering by she will start to go after it and all I do is say her name sharply and snap my fingers and she goes and sits on the front step with her head down. But I can never ever trust her. The day may come when she doesn't listen and still finiishes what she's started but I keep a close eye on her and she is never out alone. Absolutely never. And I live on a very quiet street so there is no traffic. She loves to go for walks in the woods but she never wanders far, she always keeps me in her sights.
She still has a couple of issues we are trying to work on but not having much success. She loves to ride, just doesn't want to get out when we get there (unless its the woods) She gets very nervous, her nose starts running, she throws up and has diareah. So needless to say I can't take her visiting with me and I don't fully trust her with little kids. She growled twice at my sister's granddaughter.
No doubt about it she needs constant supervision but she is getting much better. I'm not giving up on her and if her issues are never resolved then so what, she's with me most of the time alone and she's fine, the rest we can work on one step at a time -
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Thu, April 27, 2006 - 7:04 PMI understand... its always better to be safe than sorry. It sounds like you've done a great job training her.
my big dog is the gentle giant & still got into it with an aggressive neighbor's dog while we were in OR. Poor Daizey got a couple stiches in her face.. the other dog was with her owner, came on to my property and they got into it... it was awful..
you just never know with rescues who or how messed up some dumb ass made them. I have been lucky with my Scout. If the stories they told me at the shelter are true, he & his sister were escape artists somewhere around Lodi. The hippy kids that owned them got tired of paying money to bail them out and tried to break them out of the shelter. Scout & his sis got shipped to Santa Rosa where his sister got adopted and poor Scout was there for 6 weeks!! I bet his sister wasn't black!!!
anyway... now he has two big sister dogs, a cat, and a mom that spoils them all...
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Re: My Molly
Thu, April 27, 2006 - 7:37 PMain't that the truth! you never know what the trigger is that will set them off. Unfortunately they can't talk and tell us what happened to them but we have to deal with it. We must always assume they will bite, even the most gentle dog that you never thought would bite may surprise you someday and bite so one must always be prepared.
Someone paid a lot of money for Molly, according to my vet and groomer she is solid west german bloodlines, would have been a very valuable breeder. So why someone would pay good money for a pet only to abuse it and turn it into a neurotic cowering creature is beyond me.
Molly is a big girl, at 102 pounds with a mouth like a cave she could have turned on her former owner anytime, but she's a good girl, she put up with the abuse day after day and she is still one of the most loving animals I've ever had. She just wants to please. She tries so hard to be a good girl and she learns so fast. Didn't take her long to catch on to "playing ball".
I look at a dog's coloring the same as I do a person's skin color, under the skin we are all the same color, same goes for animals. I was brought up on a dairy farm, my dad used to say once the hide is off the meat is all the same. I never forgot that so color means nothing to me. black, white or anything in between, they all need homes. -
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Re: My Molly
Thu, April 27, 2006 - 9:38 PMI clicked on your pics...
all your furry children are very cool looking.. Molly is lovely, and Misty is really neat looking. Very woof (wolf) dog as I like to say. I think cats that live with big dogs have extra personality..
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Re: My Molly
Fri, April 28, 2006 - 6:07 AMMIsty looks wolfie because she is grey with old age. The old gal is pushing 13 but still pretty healthy and still loves to go with me and Molly for our walks in the woods and play time at the ballfield.
She of course has slowed down, can't keep up with the energyzer bunny that Molly is but she wants to come and I can't neglect her and make her stay home.
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Re: My Molly
Thu, May 4, 2006 - 10:32 PMYour Molly looks much like my Zoos. Sounds a lot like a couple of my friends' dogs. My parents next door neighbours' kids grew up and left home. this couple started taking Mom's beautiful 'Beau', a golden retriever, out for their daily jog. Eventully, they got a golden of their own from a golden retriever rescue society. My friend heard about this and called the same society and got the sister to the couple's dog. The 2 dogs have very simular, sad stories. They were severely neglected in the back yard, having only eachother for company. They got along but had to be split up (nobody wanted 2 troubled dogs). Needless to say, I get updates from both. Neither was socialized with kids or other dogs when they were young so neither has good manners at all with kids or dogs. Both are delightful but, like you've said of Molly, can never be trusted. The couple is very good about taking their pooch out for walks to see other dogs ( a good thing to do, they were told by the expert) tho, always on leash. Some people don't understand this and think a person is being cruel but you know the best for your own dog.
Oh, and speaking of looking like my Zoos, I read that the bent back legs are a trait of sheppherds. Unles they are severe, I wouldn't worry about it. Sounds like a great companion.
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Re: My Molly
Fri, May 5, 2006 - 6:34 AMat least the goldens had each other for company, molly had no one. When I think of how Molly was treated I'd like to punch that man in the mouth. You would not believe by looking at her now that she is the same dog that came to me. Even my vet is amazed at how far she's come since I've had her. Her toenails were about 4 inches long, she was skinny, had no self confidence, all she wanted to do was hide in her crate. I had her groomed, nails cut, left the crate door open and little by little she started coming out to see what I was doing. They I started playing with her, letting her win at tug of war with the rope toy to build up her self confidence and took her for walks in the woods and to play ball at the ballfield to get her in shape. She looks good now. ( to good, she needs to loose 15 pounds) She didn't even know how to bark. Thanks to Misty she learned that one! Not that she's yappy but now she does bark when someone is around. Once in a while I see a flicker of the "old molly" when something scares her, which makes me think I can never totally trust her as I think she could be a fear bitter. But basically she's come a long way and I continue to work with her daily to make her the best she can possibly be. We're getting there.
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